Last week we had some hard days in the Ballon household. It was an especially hard week for my 16-year-old. And of course for dear old mom and dad. I’ve written frequently about the joys of raising teenagers, and for the most part, it is a joy. It’s really so much better than people tell you. But then, sometimes it isn’t. Sometimes the problems feel so enormous and grown-up that it’s hard to reconcile the fact that this is your
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This is Fifteen
![This is Fifteen Happy 15th birthday Hannah](https://i0.wp.com/neitherheightnordepth.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/20180326_131510-e1522085659920.jpg?resize=270%2C270&ssl=1)
Fifteen. Today you turn fifteen and I’m feeling very emotional about it. I can’t say exactly why, only that some ages hit me harder than others. I remember crying the year you turned seven, for no particular reason except that seven seemed so much older than six and I felt like a season was coming to an end. Today it’s feeling less like a season coming to an end and more like a new beginning. Like you are embarking on
The surprising truth about parenting a teenager
![The surprising truth about parenting a teenager my beautiful teenager](https://i0.wp.com/neitherheightnordepth.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/p1010660.jpg?resize=270%2C270&ssl=1)
You don’t have to be a parent to know that the general consensus around raising teenagers is “oh boy, hold on to your hat, it’s going to get bumpy” or perhaps something a little more blunt than that. There is this universal understanding that the teen years are the hardest to navigate as a parent, with perhaps the exception of the toddler years. I see it every time someone learns that I have a 14 year old daughter and they